Many people will try to force a vibrator into their sensitive areas without even asking themselves “How to use a vibrator for the first time?” Not only can this be dangerous, but it can end up resulting in an unsatisfying experience.
Well, this guide will clear everything up for you regarding your first time using a vibrator. After this, you will be ready to have a satisfying and safe experience with your new toy.
Read the instructions
Always, always, always read the instructions that come with your sex toys. They are there for a reason. This is especially important if you are using a vibrator for the first time.
The instructions will tell you exactly how to position your toy, how to insert it if it is insertable, how to hold it, how to clean it, and everything else.
They will also display any warnings you should be aware of. You will learn important information about battery life and charging specifications. Lastly, you will also find any new features this toy may introduce here.
In the end, this will lead to a very satisfying experience with nothing to worry about before or after.
Determine if it is porous or not
Great, now that you've read the instructions you'll know if your vibrator is porous or not. Most popular vibrators today are non-porous, which is a good thing.
On the other hand, if this is not specifically stated on the package, you can tell by simply reading what material your sex toy is made of .
Why is this important?
It is actually essential as it will determine whether you use a condom with your sex toy or not. Please always use condoms with porous sex toys. These toys are much more challenging to clean and cannot be sterilized. This means that a lot of bacteria will hang out on the surface of porous sex toys.
If it is non-porous, just clean it with soap and water before and after each use and it is ready to use.
Be generous with the lubricant
Lubricant is extremely important when it comes to vibrator safety and use, especially for your first time using a vibrator.
The main reason is, of course, safety. With lubrication, there is almost no friction that can cause damage or burns. Friction burns in sensitive areas are something we are not looking forward to.
Luckily, most sex toys these days come with a single packet of lubricant. This type of lubricant is ideal for the specific toy you purchased. However, if lubricant is not included, go back to the first step of this guide – read the instructions! The vibrator’s manual will tell you what type of lubricant is ideal. In most cases, water-based lubricant is the best option and works with all types of vibrators.
Don't rush
After you've checked all the safety marks, it's finally time to start enjoying yourself with your vibrator. Just remember, don't go all in. This isn't optimal for regular sex so why would you think it's okay to do it with sex toys?
The proper way to do it is easy, slow, and steady. Start by setting your mood, warming up a bit without the vibrator, and then only use it when it's time to increase satisfaction.
Start with the lowest setting
Another common mistake that many beginners make is to instantly put on the most intense vibration setting and go really hard. That's not the right way to do it even if it's not your first time using a vibrator.
If your vibrator has multiple vibration intensities, use it on the lowest, gentlest setting. Get a good feel for what intensity is good for you or if you need more. If you decide that's not enough, then start increasing the intensity level one by one. Don't skip levels. Go one by one!
Enjoy!
That's basically it. There's nothing so special about it. However, sometimes many of us overlook super obvious steps like the 5 steps already mentioned.
In any case, be sure to read the FAQ and tips below this. They are perfectly aligned with the steps for using a vibrator for the first time.
Hopefully, your first time will be very enjoyable and you will have found the perfect vibrator for you on the first try.
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